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FINALLY REVEALEDThe Secrets To Relationship Management And Ultimate Success With Women…

How To Wear The Pants Without Losing Your Shift

Could it really be true that you can date as many women as you want to on your way to finding the one greatest woman you’ve ever met?

Can you really attract the highest-quality women on Earth and keep them attracted for as long as you choose?

Best of all, is it possible to lock down the “revolving door” of women in and out of your life and take back control of your dating destiny?

The answer to all of these questions is a resounding YES–and you’re about to discover exactly why…

Dear Friend:

I have some mission-critical questions for you. How you respond to them could decide how your dating life goes for years to come, so consider your answers carefully:

   Do you gather the courage to approach a beautiful woman, get her number, and even enjoy a great first date…only to have her disappear like the wind for no apparent reason?   Is there a “revolving door” of women in and out of your life? That is, you can’t ever seem to keep a great woman around longer than a month or two…max?

   Do you have every e-book from every pickup artist, know every technique and routine ever developed, and still find yourself asking “What do I do next?” once you’re actually with a beautiful woman who is attracted to you?

   Did you originally set out to improve your skills with women so you could find a great girlfriend, but instead have been caught up in “PUA training” that isn’t bringing the high-quality women into your life you want most?

   Have you ever found yourself “locked down” in an exclusive relationship with a woman you didn’t even really choose…when you would have rather kept your “options open”?

   Did you ever have an incredible women walk into your life, only to completely blow it with her? Worse, were you left not even knowing why everything slipped through your fingers?

   Do you keep settling time and again for girlfriends who fall way short of what you really want…yet you don’t know exactly how to end things and move on?

   Are there times where you feel the woman is in complete control of the relationship…giving you a sickening, helpless feeling? Do you feel like you should be “wearing the pants” even as she loses respect for you for not doing so?

   Have you ever tried to talk yourself into believing you are in a “happy” relationship…even though the two of you argue constantly and seem to disagree on everything?

If you answered “yes” to even one of the questions above, you certainly are not alone.

Just about every man faces tremendous challenges when it comes to finding and attracting the high quality women they desire. I know I’ve been there personally.

And assuming a great woman does come along, managing a relationship with her can become a total disaster before you even know what hit you.

Even so, here’s the amazing irony of the whole situation. Even though you may be left scratching your head every single time the chance to build a solid relationship with a terrific woman comes along, there has been virtually nobody out there offering any real answers.

Well, that’s about to change…forever.

You are about to discover a solution to your frustrations that could radically transform your entire life…if you allow it to.

After all, pickup skill can carry you through the first ten minutes of your interactions with women. But relationship management is forever.

Let’s face it. We all dream of finding the kind of woman who we are proud to have at our side. Every day, it seems, you see a guy who appears to be no better than you, but who has a stunning woman with him. It’s clear to everyone, including you, that she absolutely adores him and respects his leadership.

Meanwhile, even though he may not be the best looking or the wealthiest man around, he stands with his head held high–knowing that he has what every man truly wants.

You wonder what he has going for him that you don’t, and the only logical answer is…nothing. Yet you wonder if you’ll ever be able to find a woman like that–one who lives up to your every desire.

Or perhaps you do meet a great woman, only to rob yourself of the enjoyment of being with her by worrying that you’ll lose her. Maybe you assume it’s only a matter of time until you’re “found out”, and she leaves you without any real explanation.

Long after the thrill of the initial approach is over, you continue to tangle yourself in the fear of rejection every step of the way–hoping that somehow you won’t be left standing alone holding the bag (again) only to have to start all over…for the umpteenth time.

When you stop to think, it really is a mystery how there hasn’t been anyone who has stepped up and brought forth real answers to men who want nothing more than to plow aside all the hype and figure out how to be that guy with the truly fantastic woman.

But the truth is, vitually nobody has those answers. There doesn’t seem to be nearly enough talk about relationship management because frankly, few have the track record to back up what they teach.

In order to be able to deliver the truth, it takes the perspective of having evaluated what one wants in a woman, having dated as many women as it took to discover that fully, the raw experience of having fought for deserving what one wants and–as a culmination of the entire process–having identified the greatest woman of all and claimed ultimate victory.

From there, it takes more than a guy who has merely succeeded in making that vision a reality. He also has to be able to teach. He has to be able to impart all of those skills to others.

Well, my name is Scot McKay, and I’m that guy. Pleased to meet you.

The First Complete System Of Its Kind

BEYOND PICKUP AND SEDUCTION — Finally…discover how to handle what comes after “Day Two”. Be ready for “Day Three”, “Day Thirty”, or “Day Three Thousand”.

AUTHENTICITY THAT ATTRACTS — Forget about wondering “what to do next” ever again. Say goodbye to dependence on routines, openers, or other “crutches”.

ASSERT MASCULINITY — Be a real man who leads instead of a “social robot”, and watch how powerfully women respond. Develop a genuine, masculine presence that is literally like catnip to women.

UNDERSTAND WOMEN — Don’t believe the hype. Get inside a woman’s head and discover the shocking truth about what drives them.

DATE MULTIPLE WOMEN — This isn’t just about “getting the lay”. This is about knowing what you want, enjoying a life full of amazing women, and recognizing the best of the best when she arrives.

RESOLVE CONFLICT — Prevent arguments before they ever even happen. Deal with minor grievances before they balloon into unspoken bitterness on a massive scale.

GIVE YOURSELF REAL OPTIONS — No pressure to conform to someone else’s vision. Have the dating life you choose, with the goals to match–even if you truly want to find one great woman.

SKILLS WITH WOMEN THAT LAST FOREVER — Pickup techniques have an “expiration date” with every woman you meet. Relationship management is an enduring skill set that reaps benefits for a lifetime…

And yes, I’m absolutely, positively no “better” than you are. In just about every sense of the word, I’m an average guy.

But I am indeed an average guy who found success where few others do. And I do have an extensive background in teaching and coaching that spans more than two decades.

It’s precisely for those reasons that I believe I hold the secrets that can rock your entire world as far as success with women goes.

After a bitter divorce and a layoff from my dream IT job jettisoned me to rock-bottom, I made a decision. That decision was to refuse being a “victim” and make sure that I never made another serious mistake when it came to relationships with women.

After dating countless women and continually raising the bar, I found myself with several women in my life I felt I could spend the rest of my life with happily. That alone is remarkable, but better yet–I raised that bar yet again and decided to build a shared history with the very greatest woman I’d ever met. You may know her as my podcast co-host, fellow “dating guru” and, yes, wife…Emily McKay.


What you are about to discover is exactly how to become a man who is the master of his own destiny with women.

I understand that some dating and seduction teachers think that any guy who wants a relationship with one great woman will never avoid being “p-whipped”. Sometimes it all sounds as if having a solid relationship with one great woman is not what any real man should hope for, doesn’t it?

Well, I’m here to tell you that couldn’t be further from the truth.

The problem is that most of the dating advice out there–even from the “PUA gurus” is actually pointing you towards being dominated by women even as they tell you to avoid “kissing up” to them.

The simple message that beautiful women call all the shots–and it’s up to us as guys to “game” them–really does keep women in the driver’s seat, doesn’t it?


Pickup skills have an expiration date. Relationship management is forever.

Yet, the shocking truth is that women crave a man who demonstrates leadership instead of a man who willingly hands over his personal masculine power. But who will prepare us as men to meet that challenge?

Well, for starters what we clearly need is a real choice above and beyond one-night stands and “quick fixes”. After all, guys who are “chasers” tend to be the ones who cannot see beyond that.

So then, what I’m going to reveal to you, step-by-step, are secrets to managing relationships with women that have eluded men for literally decades.

Make no mistake about it: “Women truly do follow our lead as men. That leadership is a massive piece of the puzzle when it comes to long-term success with women–and it starts from the very moment you walk up to a woman and introduce yourself.

That’s why I’ve named my revolutionary system for relationship management THE LEADING MAN.

Get What You Are Really Wanted All Along

TRUE CONTROL OVER YOUR DATING LIFE — Become the “chooser” instead of the “chaser”. Be with who you want, for as long as you want.

EARN RESPECT FROM WOMEN — Be a man who women trust and follow. End all the “power plays”.

ALWAYS KNOW WHERE YOU STAND — If you have to guess what’s on her mind, you can guess she won’t be sticking around for long…

FILL YOUR SCHEDULE WITH HIGH-QUALITY WOMEN — Forget going “back to the well” time after time in search of women who will ultimately disappoint you. Never go home lonely…again.

GET ONE GREAT WOMAN — Kiss the “revolving door” goodbye and make sure the greatest woman you’ve ever met is attracted to you instead of some other guy.

BE A MAN WHO LEADS — Have a plan and follow through. Never become like the “p-whipped” husband in a bad sitcom!

What if I told you that you could soon become a part of the “inner circle” of guys who have figured out the true “secret of the universe” when it comes to getting past the basics and achieving all-around mastery with women?

Believe me, in the past I’ve had my life nearly ruined because I lacked relationship management skill. But I’ve since discovered how to “live the dream” of a completely fulfilling and ultimately satisfying life with women.

And that’s why I’ve got your back. I’ve made it my personal mission to make sure that no man is forced to live the lie that a “revolving door” is the only one that’s open to you.

You can attract multiple amazing women, and evaluate each of them in a pressure-free environment. You can decide what you want from your dating life on your terms.

And yes…when you believe the time is right, you can build a rich, lifelong history with one great woman that exceeds your wildest expectations.

You can put an end to dating chaos. You can dream of the future, and include a great woman in those dreams.

You can father sons and daughters someday without being relegated to paying child support–and without being limited to only seeing them every other weekend. You need not put up with “baby mama drama”.

You can find a woman worthy of your trust who will never cuckold you or take you to the cleaners. And yes, you can be sexually fulfilled for as long as you can stand it.

Look, I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “Women…you can’t live with them and you can’t live without them.”


Show me a woman who “wears the pants”, and I’ll show you a bitter woman.

Well, not only can you live a richly satisfying life with women, you can quite literally understand them also. All it takes is a clear pathway to gaining the knowledge and wisdom you need to succeed.

All of that and more is exactly what is unveiled for you in THE LEADING MAN relationship management system.

By now, I’m sure you’re ready to find out what is included. So I won’t make you wait another second:

Go Way Beyond Pickup And Seduction. Get The Skills That Never Expire.


AUDIO PROGRAM 1:  Core Leadership And Relationship Management Secrets (With Transcript)

Define the core components of relationship management. Get the right foundation for becoming exactly the man who women crave. Represent what she wants, and get what you want. Get ready for a refreshingly simple plan that will open your eyes to the rich possibilities with women that await you.

  • The “Golden Standard” mindset…and the simple steps to achieving it.
  • The most crucial key to relationship management…which is also the most overlooked and misunderstood.
  • The “missing link” between approach anxiety and bad relationship management.
  • One thing you must never assume…stay passive here and lose all control.
  •  How to respond when the “chips are down” in any situation.
  • Avoiding “double standards” and numerous other flashpoints that cause long-term drama.
  • How to break up with a woman…while still having her in your life if you so choose.
  • The critical steps to managing your relationship in the bedroom.


AUDIO PROGRAM 2:  The Man In Demand:  Managing Multiple Long-Term Relationships (With Transcript)

End life as a “serial dater”. After all, life is too short to evaluate one woman at a time. In this epic audio program, you’ll be handed the complete roadmap for navigating the potentially tricky path to managing multiple long-term relationships (mLTRs) with women.


  • Why you must master mLTRs…even if your ultimate goal is to find one great woman.
  • The all-important first step that every man must take when deciding to date multiple women.
  • What to do if a women calls you out as a “player”.
  • The exact way to tell women you are dating others…and actually increase her attraction as a result.
  • The surprising truth about women and commitment…this is where everything you’ve ever thought changes before your very eyes.
  • Sex with multiple women?…all about open-relationships and polyamory.
  • A simple formula for figuring out how many women to date at once.
  • How to naturally have multiple women in your life who are loyal to you alone…without ever demanding it.


AUDIO PROGRAM 3:  Life With The Greatest Woman You’ve Ever Met (With Transcript)

Everyone knows that over half of all marriages end in divorce. The figures for second-marriages are even more sobering. Be sure to listen to this program at least twice, because it will be your very best defense against becoming a “statistic”. Identify the woman of your dreams–all cliches aside–and keep her attracted.


  • Why many men automatically believe that a blissful long-term relationship with one woman is impossible.
  • The counter-intuitive secret to ensuring that you end up with the right woman.
  • Exactly how men fail to think ahead…and ruin their chances for achieving long-term happiness.
  • The disarmingly simple way to tell if you are ready to meet the greatest woman you’ve ever known.
  • Step-by-step secrets to identifying a great woman…in your home town, wherever you live.
  • 8 types of women who must be avoided at all costs.
  • How to test a relationship without tearing it apart.
  • Ingenious ways to “settle proof” yourself.
  • How to keep “wearing the pants”…while preventing divorce at the same time.


AUDIO PROGRAM 4:  Decoding Women (With Quick-Reference Guide)

A key part of understanding women is understanding what they are telling us. In this lightning-paced epic-length audio, you’ll discover the exact meanings behind over 110 distinct conversations women tend to have with men.


  • 6 overarching principles of female communication…know these and start understanding women better today.
  • How to handle sensitive questions about your past…navigate these effectively or risk everything.
  • Exactly what to do when she fishes for compliments.
  • Key indicators that she is wildly attracted to you…most of which you’ve probably been 100% blind to until now.
  • Dead giveaways that you are wasting your precious time with a particular woman.
  • Subtle ways a woman tests your manhood…and how you can live up to the challenge.
  • Key phrases that indicate potentially dangerous personality issues.
  • How to handle extreme reactions from women.
  • The overwhelmingly powerful but almost universally misunderstood element of female psychology that derails men by the thousands.


AUDIO PROGRAM 5:  Situational Conversation (With Transcript)

Without a doubt, one of the biggest questions ever asked is “What do I say next?” Knowing how to decode what a woman says is only half the story. Without effective communication on your part it’s all but impossible to quarterback relationships as efficiently as you should. This audio program reveals all the secrets.

  • What “perception born of desperation” means…and why it could apply to you.
  • Nearly four dozen situations covered…presented with the right way to handle conversation for each.
  • Two indispensable attitudes that all but guarantee you’ll say the right thing in almost any situation.
  • Precisely why “canned lines” can only take you so far with women…and what to do about it.
  • The utterly fail-safe way to succeed in any conversation with a woman…especially when you’re just getting to know her.
  • How to naturally arrange first, second and third dates without pressure…and with great success.
  • Secrets to “flake proofing” a woman more effectively than you’ve ever thought possible…this is not what you’ve heard elsewhere.
  • Exactly how to talk about sex with a woman…especially when it comes up for the first time ever.
  • Conversation dynamics when things are escalating physically…what you say will make it or break it–literally.


AUDIO PROGRAM 6:  Traps Women Set (With Transcript)

Sure, there are lots of great women out there. Even so, the effective relationship manager must be able to detect and avoid traps that women will invariably set. Here’s everything you need to keep from being snared.

  • Why even high-quality women set traps…and how they do it.
  • The #1 trap that women set…and how they can actually get you to put aside your own needs to fall into it.
  • Four personality types that make a woman exponentially more likely to set traps.
  • How to tell what a woman really means when she tells you she’s waiting until marriage for sex.
  • Three ways women trap a man into getting her pregnant…and the surprising reasons why.
  • A key trap women set that actually makes you feel like more of a man…until you wake up.
  • Why traps aren’t a gender-specific thing…and how to check yourself, lest you lose a great woman.
  • The virtually infallible “acid test” for finding out if she’s manipulating you or not.
  • The one exceptional case when the “Just Be Friends” talk isn’t what it seems.

AUDIO PROGRAM 7:  Crisis Management–When The Chips Are Down (With Transcript)

It’s no secret that women want a man who is both a protector and a provider. This is the ultimate representation of masculine leadership. You’re about to learn exactly how to handle high-pressure situations that can spring forth without notice. Never get caught off-guard ever again. Instead, maintain composure and be the man of her dreams.

  • The two main types of crisis…and why you must approach each differently.
  • Dealing with real challenges from other men.
  • What to do when she tells you she’s pregnant.
  • All about “The Triangle”…and why understanding it fast-tracks your rapport with a certain percentage of women.
  • How to handle real or perceived threats to your relationship…and how to tell the difference.
  • When personal safety is in imminent danger…how to maximize the chances of a happy ending and come out a hero.
  • Precisely what to do when a family emergency arises out of nowhere.
  • What to do when confronted with unexpected awkwardness…meeting exes, meeting kids, etc.
  • How to be the “go-to” leader for your entire family…to your woman’s delight.

AUDIO PROGRAM 8:  Your Wildest Dreams Made Possible (With Transcript)

It’s easy to hear about amazing successes other guys have with women and pass off the stories as purely fictional. But the stories you hear are often true. You absolutely can watch your most amazing fantasies with women come true before your very eyes also. The secret lies in powerful relationship management…always.

  • The magical frame of mind that best allows unbelievable situations with women to unfold…and you can achieve it quickly and easily.
  • Getting women to notice you and smile at you first…for real.
  • Exactly what it takes to get a woman to think about you constantly…even to the point of fantasizing about you.
  • All but foolproof ways to get women to chase you…start being the “chooser” now.
  • How to get women to actually initiate physical contact rather than playing “keep away”.
  • Secrets to getting any woman to treat you right…even right here in North America.
  • Proof that faithful and honest women exist…and how to bring out the best in them.
  • Amazing ways to find emotionally stable women…even PMS doesn’t have to be a factor.
  • What it takes to make a woman want to fulfill your sexual fantasies…all the while losing her own inhibitions.

AUDIO PROGRAM 9:  Conflict Resolution (With Transcript)

The likelihood of a happy future with a great woman has everything to do with how you step up and handle conflict as the man in a relationship. In this audio program you can expect to hear groundbreaking strategies for minimizing emotional strain while maximizing her respect for you.

  • The critical pre-requisites necessary to even thinking about managing conflict successfully…overlook these at your own risk.
  • Practical 20/20 foresight that will afford you the golden ability to anticipate potential “flash points”…before they ever flare up.
  • Exactly why certain commonly accepted pickup tactics actually set you up for unnecessary and unwanted conflict in long-term relationships…make sure you are wise to the pattern from now on.
  • Train yourself to recognize deeper indicators of conflict that go way beyond what is obvious…before it’s too late.
  • Step-by-step instructions on how to deal with a woman you suspect may be cheating on you…and how to handle accusations of cheating directed toward you.
  • The all-important mindset that “macho” guys almost always overlook…resulting in near-certain disaster when conflict arises.
  • Stop being confronted by mean-sprited threats and ultimatums…no more gut-wrenching “ambushes” or other unwanted surprises.
  • Recognize when friends, family members and/or other third parties seek to drive a wedge between you and the woman in your life…and put an end to it without creating awkwardness.
  • What to do when you know you are in the wrong…the correct course of action may surprise you.

BONUS VIDEO:  How To Select A High Quality Woman

Join X & Y Communications coach Jim Dalton and I for a hard-hitting video on exactly how to make sure you’ve got a high-quality woman in your life. Both of us know what it means to end up with the wrong woman in our lives, despite doing what we thought were the right things. That 20/20 hindsight is your gain, as we breakdown how to identify great women while weeding out the wrong ones.

  • The signs of an unreasonable woman…never get fooled again.
  • Finally…what you can’t change about a woman…and what you actually can.
  • The one magical trait that most men think that women uniquely possess…wake it up in yourself and transform your life.
  • The common..but dangerous…assumption that most men make about women.
  • How to recover from a bad relationship quickly and easily.
  • Make the right choices regarding the women in your life… without ever second-guessing yourself again.

That’s over nine full hours of nonstop, fluff-free content…all designed to prepare you for greatness when it comes to managing relationships. You would expect nothing less than that from a system called THE LEADING MAN.

But I’m really just getting warmed up. Take a look at these additional premium programs, which I’ve included specifically to take you to the next level without ever looking back:

Above And Beyond…Targeted Teaching To Expand Your Relationship Management Skill set To Expert Level

PREMIUM PROGRAM 1:  Character-Based Kino (With Transcript)

Learn how to naturally inspire women to crave physical contact with you…simply by being a real man. Forget cheesy “escalation” tactics reminicent of used-car salesmen. No creepy stuff…just results.

  •  The counter-intuitive principle that only men who are hyper-successful with women know…but virtually zero PUAs teach it because most men can’t handle it    The deadly mistake that almost every man makes…if you don’t know what it is, chances are it’s killing your game even as we speak
  • A disarmingly simple concept that is universally overlooked…but which will change everything you’ve ever thought about kino.
  • Know precisely when the woman’s equivalent of “approach anxiety” strikes and act accordingly…she’ll love you for it.
  • How to tell she is ready for you to touch her…beyond a shadow of a doubt.
  • Sure-fire tests for reading even the most poker-faced woman’s sexual interest.
  • Specific strategies for getting the first kiss right…and how exactly to know you did so.
  • Exactly how to execute a “secret move” when you kiss a woman that deepens her comfort level and trust.
  • Eight signs that a woman is waiting for you to make a very strong sexual move.

PREMIUM PROGRAM 2:  Telecom Game (With Transcript)

Does talking to a woman on the phone always seem to become a hang-up for you? If so, that’s about to become a thing of the past. This premium program will tighten up every aspect of your phone game–including texting, voice mail and even how to arouse a woman’s deepest sensual passions over the phone.

  •  How exactly to get your phone setup right for maximum effectiveness with women    What to do when you get her voice mail that dramatically increases the likelihood that she’ll call you back.
  • Crucial text messaging mistakes that most guys make…even though the very tactics they’re using are actually recommended by other dating coaches.
  • Step-by-step details on how to make a first phone call with a woman great.
  • What to do when she doesn’t call you back.
  • A wealth of killer strategies for flirting via text message…guaranteed original and effective.
  • Finally…when exactly to call, and when not to…broken down by relationship type.
  • Detailed instructions on how to powerfully ignite a woman’s sexual passion over the phone…the sky’s the limit.

PREMIUM PROGRAM 3:  Round Table Discussion: What Women Want From A Man When It Comes To Relationships (With Worksheet)

So what do women actually say about what they want from a man as far as relationship management goes? Here’s where the rubber meets the road. Join me as I get real-world answers courtesy of Kim from Pickup Podcast and The Art Of Charm (www.pickuppodcast.com), Liz from Inner Game Magazine (www.innergamemagazine.com) and Emily from right here at X & Y Communications. Once they’re in the “hot seat”, I don’t let up until every question is answered.

  •  How women define “relationship management”…know for sure what women expect from a man    The biggest mistakes men make early on in a relationship…causing women to leave without so much as a kiss goodbye.
  • What guys do to mess up long-term relationships…even when they think things are going well.
  • How to compel a great woman to want to stick around and be faithful to you.
  • Frank answers on the differences between “leadership” and “controlling manipulation”…listen closely and gain an unfair
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